I have been working with attorneys, financial neutrals, and other mental health experts throughout the tri-state area (VA, MD and DC) over the last six years. I have participated in over 80 cases and have served both as a Divorce Coach and a Child Specialist. I have worked both as a sole Mental Health Neutral and as one of two Divorce Coaches. During the last two years, I have provided trainings to professionals who want to learn the Collaborative approach, and have found the spread of Collaborative throughout America to be thrilling. I believe the Collaborative model of resolving disputes is a creative, inspiring, supportive, and effective way to help people move through the challenging process of divorce for a wide variety of clients and situations. I also find that Collaborative teams are uniquely able to listen to the voices of the children in each family, and to give those children a chance to be heard. Children I have worked with during the very difficult time of their parents' divorce have expressed relief that they are able to talk about the experiences they are having with people who can help their parents help them.
CURRENT:
Board Member --DCACP - Chair of Education Committee
PRIOR:
Past President -- DCACP (DC practice group)
Co-Chair -- CPNV - (Northern VA practice group)
Faculty Trainer --Collaborative Professionals Training Institute - CPTI
Co-Founder -- Collaborative Practice Center of Greater Washington
Year | Course Title | Instructor | Hours |
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Basic/ Introductory Collaborative Law or Interdisciplinary Collaborative Team Training. | |||
2007 | Basic Interdiciplinary Training | Lauren Alexander, Nancy Rose, et al. | 18 |
30-Hr Interest-Based Negotiation & Mediation Skills | |||
2008 | 30-Hour Mediation Training with Collaborative Skills Focus | Judy Rubin, Frank Morrison | 30 |
Additional 15 hours Intermediate/ Advanced interest-based negotiation, communication skills, collaborative, or basic professional coach training | |||
2008 | IACP Forum workshop on Train the Trainers | Susan Gamache, Amy Wolf, Malcolm McCallum | 6 |
2007 | Intermediate Collaborative Law Traning | Stu Webb | 6 |
2007 | Conflict Resolution Training | I was the instructor | 6 |
Annual 4 hours collaborative continuing education (basic, intermediate, or advanced) | |||
2024 | Six Tips for Creating A Successful Working Relationship with Our Clients From the First Consult Through Settlement | Collaborative Clubhouse: Lisa Herrick, PhD | 2 |
2023 | Trauma-Responsive Collaborative Practice (16th VaCP) | Dana Baerger, J.D., Ph.D. | 6 |
2022 | The Long and Winding Farewell: How Divorce Changes What We Think We Know About Grief | DCACP: Hope Edelman | 4.5 |
2022 | Targeted Tools to Resolve Complex Collaborative Impasses | CPNV: Carl Mitlehner, CFP®, Sue Soler, LCSW, and Jennifer Bradley, JD | 1.5 |
2022 | Solid Foundations - How to build Practices and Teams That Withstand the Storms | CPNV: Debbie Beach, LCSW, Steve Goldman, JD & Don Paris, CPA, MST, CDFA | 1.5 |
2022 | Collaborative Clients: When Kumbaya is Not Enough | CPNV: Barbara Burr, Esq. | 1.5 |
2021 | Understanding Domestic Violence and the Challenges in Getting It Right | CPNV: Viola Vaughan-Eden, PhD, MJ, LCSW | 1.5 |
2021 | Transform Them | CPNV: Jonathan Foust MA | 1.5 |
2021 | The Flexible Potential of the Child Specialist Role | CPNV: Natalie Goldberg and Lisa Herrick | 1.5 |
2021 | Should Va. Create a Presumption of Shared Custody: A Current Effort is Underway; and There is Research to Support It | CPNV: L.Herrick/AdeleD./Jennifer Bradley | 1.5 |
2021 | No Justice, No Peace | CPNV: B. Burr/N. Goldberg | 1.5 |
2021 | Hold on To your Hats/Streamlining strategies | CPNV: Goldberg/Bradley/Fletcher/Ochsman-Rowney | 1.5 |
2021 | Changes, Practical Applications and Issues now that the UCLA Statute has been Enacted (14th VaCP) | Teresa Cole, JD, Karen Keyes, JD & Cheryl Smith, JD | 1.25 |
2021 | Beyond Spread Sheets and Cash Flow a Deep Dive into the Financial Neutral's role | CPNV: Debbie May CPA & Robin Taub JD | 1.5 |
2021 | ADULT ADHD IN COLLABORATIVE PRACTICE: A POWERFUL, UNDER-RECOGNIZED X FACTOR | CPNV: Kate Scharff, PhD | 1.5 |
2021 | A Deeper Dive into the Role of the Child Specialist (14th VaCP) | I was presenter with Natalie Goldberg, LCSW | 2.75 |
2020 | Yikes - My Client is Recently Sober: Integrating Substance Abuse Recovery into a Parenting Plan | CPNV: Natalie Goldberg and George Young | 1.5 |
2020 | The New Normal | CPNV: Steven Goldman, Patrice Garver, Lisa Herrick, and Natalie Goldberg | 1.5 |
2020 | Pre-Nups the Collaborative Way | CPNV: Michael McHugh & Lynn Fletcher | 1.5 |
2020 | Impacts During COVID-19 | CPNV: Lisa Herrick, Natalie Goldberg, Sue Soler, Jennifer Bradley & Grant Moher | 1.5 |
2020 | Dialectical Behavior Therapy: Adapting Techniques for Collaborative Professionals | CPNV: Britt Rathbone, LCSW-C | 3 |
2020 | Cash, Covid, and Collaboration: Financial Considerations for assisting your clients | CPNV: Jordan Egert & Jane Oschman Rowny | 1.5 |
2019 | What's IACP Got to Do With IT? | Chris Farish | .5 |
2019 | VaCP Annual COnference: Collaborative Boot Camp | I was the instructor with Barbara Burr | 5.5 |
2019 | Mediation & Interest-Based Negotiation Skills Training | I was the instructor with Barbara Burr, Esq. | 40 |
2019 | Chreating Child-Focused Parenting Plans | I was the instructor with Barbara Burr, Esq. & Adele D'Ari, EdD | 6 |
2017 | Introductory Collaborative Training | I was the instructor | 14 |
2017 | Delving into Impasse | I was the instructor | 6 |
2017 | Creating the Conditions for Growth As We Help Our Clients Navigate Separation and Divorce | I was the instructor with Kate Scharff | 6 |
2017 | Collaborative Protocols and Navigating the Complexity of Divorce | Victoria Smith | 6 |
2016 | Providing and Receiving Feedback | Karen Freed, Sue Soler, Andrea Hirsch, Jan White | 1.5 |
2016 | Mastering Crucial Moments in Separation and Divorce | I was the instructor | 5 |
2016 | It Starts Before It Begins: Creating a Helping Relationship with Our Clients | I was the instructor | 3 |
2015 | The Challenge of Teams | Nancy Cameron and Yuval Berger | 5 |
2015 | Creating the Conditions for Change | I was the instructor | 5 |
2014 | Three Day Basic Training in Collaborative Team Practice | I was the instructor | 18 |
2014 | The Impact of Divorce on Children: What the Research Says | I was the instructor | 2 |
2014 | Navigating Emotional Currents of Collaborative Divorce | I was the instructor | 12 |
2014 | Finding Money Harmony | Olivia Mellon | 6 |
2013 | Three Day Collaborative Divorce Team Training | I was the instructor | 21 |
2013 | Tending and Moving: The Balancing Act | I was the instructor | 2 |
2013 | In The Moment: Anguish, ANxiety and Agression | I was the instructor | 3 |
2013 | Association of Family and Concilliation Courts Annual Conference | Ed Farber, PhD, Marsha Kline Pruett | 6 |
2013 | 30 hour Mediation and Interest-Based Negotiation Skills Training | I was the instructor | 30 |
2012 | Updates on Collaborative Protocols | Butler; Smollar; White | 1.5 |
2012 | Timeless Attachments: Shared Residential Parenting Research | Fabricius, Emery, Neilson, Kruk | 2 |
2012 | Sesne and Sensibility: Critical Interplay if Coaches and Attorneys | V. Carpel Miller, Elloe Izzo, David Horowitz | 5 |
2012 | Roadblocks to Financial Resolution in Collaborative Cases | Broussard; May; Robson | 1 |
2012 | Navigating Emotional Currents of Collaborative Divorce | I was the instructor | 6 |
2012 | Intractible Issues in Custody Cases | Mindy Mitnik, Ed.D | 12 |
2012 | Infants, Overnights and Attachment | Emery, George, McIntosh | 2 |
2012 | In The Moment: Anguish, ANxiety and Agression | I was the instructor | 5 |
2012 | Elephants in the Room During Spousal Support Discussions in Collaborative Cases | I was the instructor | 1.5 |
2012 | Advanced SKills in Interest-Based Negotiation | I was the instructor | 6 |
2012 | 3 Day Multi-Disciplinary Collaborative Training | I was the instructor | 21 |
2011 | Preventing Real Property Pitfalls in Divorce | Kelly Lise Murray | 2 |
2011 | Navigationg Emotional Currents of Collaborative Divorce | I was the instructor | 3 |
2011 | 3 Day Basic Team Training in Collaborative Divorce | I was the instructor | 18 |
2010 | Creating Deep and Durable Collaborative Parenting Plans | I was the instructor | 6 |
2010 | 30 hour Interest-Based Negotiation Skills Training | I was the instructor | 30 |
2010 | 3 Day Basic Team Training in Collaborative Divorce | I was the instructor | 18 |
2009 | Three Day Mutidisciplinary Collaborative Team Training | I was the instructor | 21 |
2009 | Sminar on The Role of the Coaches | Pauline Tesler & Peggy Thompson | 6 |
2009 | Navigating Emotional Landmines in Collaborative Practice | I was the instructor | 3 |
2009 | IACP Forum Institute on Developing your Practice | Kathleen Connor | 6 |
2009 | Collaborative Process: Negotiation Skills Training | I was the instructor | 12 |
2009 | 30 hour Interest-Based Negotiation Skills Training | I was the instructor | 30 |
2006 | Basic Collaborative Law Training | Sue Brunsting | 12 |